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      <image:title>Blog - On Politics and Energy Vampires - Because I still value knowledge very deeply, I have studied sexuality deeply.  And I am beginning to recognize that Trump and Epstein have studied some of the same teachers and texts that I have – and then used them for the absolute darkest, most maleficent purposes.  This field of sexual energy work has always been vulnerable to abuse.  It is capable of great healing in the right hands, and of enormous harm in the wrong ones. I haven’t seen anyone else talk about where esoteric sexual practice intersects with the Epstein tory, so I’m talking about it today. Let’s start with Trump’s birthday message to Epstein.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Trump’s birthday message to Epstein from PBS’s reporting on the subject</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - On Politics and Energy Vampires - One of my favorite teachers of Taoist energy work is Mantak Chia.  He is prolific, covering all forms of energy work and bodily function, including (but not limited to!) sexual energy and sexual practice. What I have seen of his work feels healthy and appropriate and well-held (though I have never worked with him directly and will defer questions of his character to students who have). Chia introduced me to the concept of sexual vampirism.(1) He uses the example of an old man who develops his energy practice to great mastery, then has sex exclusively with very young women, using his mastery to suck them of their life force energy on purpose.  The young women grow old before their time (trauma will do that), and the old men seem to never age, as they feed off of their naive, inexperienced victims.   To be clear, Chia is NOT advocating for this as a practice.  He is warning against it.   He mentions that women can accidentally steal men’s life force in sex, if the man is inexperienced in his energy work.  (Think of the post-coital couple: she is chatty and energized and he needs a nap.)  Chia teaches how men and women together can learn to circulate the energy so that it builds both up in both partners and fuels them both together.   Vampirism, he says, is more often done on purpose by men, and it is something he cautions as mis-use of his powerful Taoist teachings.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - On Politics and Energy Vampires - Christopher Anderson's Instagram Jan 6 2026, with Epstein's portrait as the most recent post</image:title>
      <image:caption>There are three pinned posts, the first of which is Stephen Miller from the Vanity Fair shoot, in a portrait that evokes Goebles of Germany for many analysts. The most recent un-pinned post is a similarly gritty black and white portrait of Epstein in Christopher Anderson’s iconic see-every-pore-in-high-contrast style.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - On Politics and Energy Vampires - Epstein's Desk/Table as shared by Christopher Anderson</image:title>
      <image:caption>In this post from Jan 6, 2026, Anderson points out the printed email in which Epstein is demanding significant payment from the Duke and Duchess, but my eye was drawn to the orange book in the upper right corner with the letters O S visible</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - On Politics and Energy Vampires - Here’s Osho from MY library, on MY kitchen table.</image:title>
      <image:caption>We both read OSHO, Epstein and I.  Lolita, too. Only we took away different things from these sources. To me, Lolita is a horror story. To Epstein, pornography. I use sexual energy work to help women heal from birth trauma. Epstein used it to wheel and deal in power and pain, traumatizing hundreds if not thousands in a few short decades.  I wasn’t able to positively identify the book on Epstein’s table.  Perhaps it’s  The Book of Wisdom, printed under a different cover.  Another possibility is Secret of Secrets, which has an orange cover.  I have read (heard) Secret of Secrets. It examines the teachings of Lao Tzu. But I don’t remember any of the practices from that volume being specifically sexual in nature (in The Book of Secrets there are about 3 sexual practices out of 112).  Note that most of Osho’s books include the word “Secret” in the title, as does Trump’s birthday note to Epstein.</image:caption>
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