BLOG AND PUBLICATIONS
Tune in for articles and appearances on love, sex, relationship, womb-loss, and grief integration.
The Forbidden Emotion
New Fall’s Resoultion
September is a great month for new beginnings. Consider setting resolutions now, so you can rest come January.
Sex or Sleep?
Sleep becomes increasingly important to healthy female sexuality as we age. Make rest sacred and enjoy more pleasure.
Sex & Pelvic Health
When your body’s trying to tell you something.
The Power of Trance
What’s the difference between sharing information and somatic coaching? Your state of consciousness.
Grief & Marriage: Part 3
So your marriage survived: now what? Not just for grieving couples. For anyone ready to really thrive.
Grief & Marriage: Part 2
Grief & Marriage: Part 1
Part 1 in a series about grief and marriage. Grief is inherently lonesome.
TFMR Awareness Day
Termination for Medical Reasons can be a deeply isolating, taboo, and misunderstood experience. This year, the second-ever TFMR Awareness day can help. Deep thanks to my friends who created it!
Terminating for Maternal Health
This one’s for my mamas who ended a pregnancy for a maternal health crisis. I’m so sorry for what you lost but so, so glad you saved yourself. You belong.
Self-Care Advent
Stressed? This is for you.
Gathering in Grief
How to navigate holiday gatherings when in grief or other awkward difficulty.
Ritual
There are parts of us that only ritual can reach. In honor of October, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Month.
The A-Word
How can a woman not know that she had an abortion?
Abortion Privacy
“I’m even afraid to tell my therapist.”
Ten Years Later
Mother Magic
I’ve been stewing about maternal power of creation, and the way the powers-that-be relentlessly co-opt it. I want to speak to the depth of creative maternal power without flinching.
3-21
It’s ok and normal to carry a pregnancy and raise a child with T21, and it’s ok and normal to decide to end a pregnancy after a diagnosis of T21. Inclusion is honoring the wisdom of different paths forward for the same diagnosis.
Subsequent Pregnancy
My trauma therapist specialized in combat veterans. When I told him my story, he leaned in close and observed: “Getting pregnant again is like coming home from war, turning around, and getting right back on the plane to Nam. You’re back in the jungle.”
What’s a Sex Coach?
Podcasts & publications
Publications:
TS Mendola’s Substack Interview, 2023
Podcast appearances:
10 With Yinh Soverignty episode
Amanda Testa, Finding Your Feminie Fire Abortion, infertility, and pleasure after loss
Navigating Babyloss with Jennifer Senn Ep #22
Confidence After Dark with Alexia: how to handle grief and babyloss in your marriage
The Women’s Table: Let’s Talk About Abortion with Tina Keyzer-van-Bruggen